Thursday, June 28, 2012

Love is a Verb



"Kindness is the language which the deaf hear
 and the blind see." ~ Mark Twain


Recently I read the book,
 The Seventeen Second Miracle by Jason Wright.
In his book he coins the phrase,
"Love is a Verb".
How true.
Too often, the word "love" is overused and,
 as a result, appears as a masquerading imposter;
a charlatan word to smoke screen emotions.
But to act on Love.
To vigorously influence an effect.
 Yes, to execute, exert and commit oneself  is....
Powerful.
Fortunately, I have several people in my life
who know how to set love in motion.
Words. Deeds. Gestures.


We tend to go through life without cognitively recognizing the positive actions of others.
Media, in all its forms, helps us concentrate on all the violent, unruly, maniacal behaviors of others,
But what about Kindness?
Are there any Generous, Considerate, Warmhearted people?
As an experiment, I've started a Kindness Journal.
In it I'm writing one kind thing someone does for me each day.
After only a few entries, when I reread them,
 I experience a warm feeling for others:
The extension of a hand; a door held open;
 an unexpected Thank You; the swipe of a stranger's train pass.
 A smile finds itself on my face and in my heart.
And, in turn, I find myself amiable towards others.
It is amazing how, to use Wright's idea,
 it only takes 17 seconds to change your course.
To change your life.


But let's not stop there.
We can change our own little spot in the world
 one second at a time.
Try it.
Conciously and actively, for the pure joy of it:
Become a human doing instead of a human being.

"Be Kind to Unkind People.
They need it the most." ~ Anonymous


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Friday, June 22, 2012

Excuses, Excuses, Excuses

Maybe it's Dementia or early Alzheimer's onset.
Maybe I spilled coffee on my keyboard
or my computer was in for repair.
Maybe I broke my fingers or had carpel tunnel.
Actually, none of these are true
(well, at least not most of them)
and I have NO EXCUSE why I didn't get this blog out on June 9,
my son Scott's birthday.


So let's celebrate Scott's birthday, a bit late;
a young man who hasn't had to make excuses
from the day he was born.


Born three months premature, weighing 3 pounds 4 ounces, dropping to 1 pound 12 ounces, enduring several surgeries before he was 2 months old...he made no excuse as to why he was determined to fight.
And fight he did.
Through heel cord surgery, through speech therapy,
through physical and occupational therapy.


By his example, his siblings also learned what it meant to fight.
When schoolmates made fun of the way he walked,
his sister cried.
When he couldn't run the bases in sports,
his brother ran for him.
When his younger sister was born, he was her protector.
He shrugged his shoulders. It was no problem.
He wanted no excuses.


Through elementary and high school he hated reading
and was short on conversation.
"How was your day, Scott?"
Response: "Good."
"How was your Math test?"
Response: "Good."
"Where did you go on your bicycle ride?"
Same response: "Good."
Today?
He's making up for lost time.
We can't. Shut. Him. Up.
(Nor do we want to)


Determined, he found his niche in life.
Cooking.
So off to culinary school he went.
Not only did he graduate with honors,
he got his Associates Degree, too.
Today, he is a Sous Chef in Washington, DC;
yes, he reads,
 and even teaches this old broad some fine cooking tips.


He is fun to be with and always has a smile,
(except if I forget to have milk in the house
when he comes home).
He has solid judgement, tenacity and focus.
But most of all, he never forgets his family.


Make no excuse about it.
Scott has made us all Proud.
Happy Birthday Scott!
We all love you!
XXXOOO


Oh! And if you didn't get a chance to wish Scott
a Happy Birthday yet this year,
he's still accepting congratulatory wishes ;)



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Friday, June 8, 2012

I Heart Photo Challenge/All Boy

In Celebration of Father's Day......
I Heart's Photo Challenge is All Boy
Some NEVER grow up!



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